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Flowers, in spectacular or simple arrangements have
always played a major role in ceremony and reception decoration. As always,
recommendations from
friends and family members are helpful in choosing a designer. Traditionally,
10 percent of your total budget should be set aside for the wedding
flowers. Before setting up an initial apppointment with your floral designer,
you should know the date, time, location of your ceremony and reception
and whether the wedding will be formal or informal. You should also be
prepared to provide the florist with photos of your wedding gown, bridesmaid's
dresses, and if possible, fabric swatches. Showing the florist pictures
from magazines or books of bouquets, arrangements and decorations you
particularly like is useful, too. When discussing arrangements with your
designer, consider
the style and mood of your wedding, the season or environment, and your
budget. Also, find out the answers to the following questions:
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Will the
designer provide a written estimate for each item?
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How much is the deposit
(20 to 40 percent is standard)?
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When is the final payment due?
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Will the shop transport the flowers to
home, ceremony and reception?
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Is there an additional charge for transportation?
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When will the flowers
be delivered?
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Does the shop carry rental items (silks, urns, candleabra,
arches, etc.)?
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Is the designer familiar with your ceremony and reception
site?
Floral pieces you will need for your ceremony and reception are:
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the
bridal bouquet
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the bridesmaid's bouquets
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the flower girl bouquet or basket of
rose petals
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boutonnieres for the groom, ushers, best man, groomsmen,
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fathers
and grandfathers of the bride and groom
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small corsages for the
mothers and grandmothers of the bride and groom
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floral decorations
for the ceremony
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floral decorations for the reception
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flowers for older relatives
or very close friends unable to attend the ceremony are optional.
If they are sent,
a card
from the
couple should
accompany these flowers saying they are "part
of our wedding flowers that we wanted to share with
you."
Practical considerations to discuss
with your florist include:
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selecting fresh, silk or dried flowers
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floral/decorating restrictions
at the ceremony/reception site
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how to prevent the bride's bouquet
from damaging her gown
whether or not to preserve the bride's bouquet (freeze-drying
is the best technique)
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cancellation policy and fees, if any
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delivery and set-up fees
When decorating the ceremony site, the flowers
can be as elaborate or as simple as you wish. Consider the decor and
don't detract from architecture,
views, etc. Decorations should be determined by the size and style
of the building, the formality of the wedding, personal preferences and
your budget. REMEMBER, FLOWERS REFLECT YOUR PERSONALITY....MAKE YOUR
WEDDING AND RECEPTION UNIQUE TO YOU! Flowers with Meaning:
JANUARY
- CARNATION
FEBRUARY - VIOLET
MARCH - JONQUIL
APRIL - SWEET PEA
MAY - LILY OF THE VALLEY
JUNE - ROSE
JULY - LARKSPUR
AUGUST - GLADIOLUS
SEPTEMBER - ASTER
OCTOBER - CALENDULA
NOVEMBER - CHRYSANTHEMUM
DECEMBER - NARCISSUS |
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